Are you Telling the truth in the Bedroom ?

Communication is one of the most important aspects of a relationship.

Often couples fail to communicate effectively by hiding their true feelings and instead pretending they are ok with something when they are not.

This Later creates resentment which is Poison to your relationship, you are just as guilty when you hold on to these secrets.

How often have you not said what you want to say in your relationship for fear of being vulnerable or risking hurting you partners feelings.

If you want to have a Loving and honest relationship with another person it is mandatory for you to feel secure enough be able to speak your piece.

One of the key area's in which couples are not honest is in the bedroom.

Some women are not being honest with their men about their own sexual satisfaction during lovemaking, this leads the man to believe that everything is going perfectly and later conflict can arise when a women does not feel satisfied in other areas of the relationship.

From a mans point of view he always wants to know that his women is happy and satisfied with him and it is in his hardwiring to want to "fix everything"

Perhaps you just want your partner to listen and care about how you feel, if so lovingly say that you just want him or her to Listen for the time being and not try to Fix it by themselves.

Think about your partners feelings and considerations, are you focusing too much on something outside of your relationship, if so this can be damaging. A smart man will understand taking care of everything inside the home first and your partners happiness is paramount to an enjoyable life.

Don't get stressed out, have you noticed when you are thinking too hard on a problem you are not giving it a chance to naturally take its course ?

Get your focus just right, begin to focus your attention on your partner during lovemaking and look for signs of enjoyment and a shared experience instead of your sole satisfaction.

Many a couple have enjoyed elevated and shared satisfaction when they open their hearts to the possibility of improving their love life and risk temporary feelings of vulnerability.

Take a moment to consider now if you have been honest in your own relationship, are you telling the truth in the bedroom ?

Ask yourself now, for what purpose am I not speaking my truth ?
Do you have old stale beliefs about sex and love that you may have inherited over the course of time ?
Do you secretly believe sex is dirty and women should not enjoy the experience ?
Do you believe Sex is a duty you perform to keep your partner happy ?
Are to trying not to rock the boat ?
Do you trust that your partner has your best interest at heart ?

For whatever reason you are keeping quite and "Faking it" realize you have not given your partner the opportunity to Satisfy your needs.

If you consider yourself deserving of Love and all the great experiences that come with it then begin to establish honesty in your communication.

Communicate lovingly on area's that may feel difficult and reassure your partner of the great things they do that you fully enjoy.

Invite your partner to be equally honest with you and lovingly communicate with you in areas that they are not fully satisfied.
Work on resolving these issues together and keep the communication going.

Your relationship always has a chance to improve as long as the doors of communication swing both ways with respect and love.

Trust that you will be able to get to a better place together and that your partner cares enough about you to work with you in resolving any and all issues.

Work on your own self love and acceptance this will make you more desirable and also affect your confidence in all areas of your life and especially your relationship.

"No person is your friend who demands your silence and denies your right to grow" Alice Walker.

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