Sex with the Lights out ...

You are a beautiful curvy women, you invest in fashion hair and make up. your body is strong, men constantly admire you, you are confident in your role as a professional women and yet !

You prefer to have sex with the lights out !

I am not speaking to anyone in particular rather to some women in general.

If this is you please continue to read.

Your Body and your Body Image are so important aspects of your communication.

When you feel a lack of confidence in this or any other area it shows up as an insecurity, and it is transmitted to your partner who I am guessing loves your body and wants to see it as often as possible.

What then are you unconsciously communicating to them:

I am not desirable

I do not love myself

I do not hold myself in high Esteem

I do not value my skin

I am unlovable just as I am

I do not deserve adoration

I am not Sexy

And so on ..

Is this really what you want to communicate with others and especially your mate who has chosen you, and you are reinforcing that you yourself do not feel this way about yourself.

How long will somebody continue adoring you when you don't find yourself sexy.

Work on it girls, learn self acceptance.

Walk around your house naked (obviously if you have kids or others living there - work something else out) be comfortable in your skin, learn to admire your body, look in the mirror naked each day and love your body.

You cannot love yourself and not love the carry casing of yourself.

You deserve to be loved and you deserve to love yourself.

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