The Trouble with Relationships

The Trouble with Relationships is that they never stay the same, they are either improving or getting much worse.

Also they require ongoing effort from all parties.

"Trying" to maintain a relationship all by yourself usually meets with a great deal of frustration as one eventually realizes this is an impossible task.

Sometimes people may notice they are doing most of if not all of the work in the relationship to keep the "Spark" alive and if no spark is left keep the miserable remains together.

Being an appealing Partner means that you understand love and respect yourself with that being said it stands to reason that you would at times put yourself first too.

Working on your own personal image is paramount to the success of a loving relationship, After all if you don't love you and find yourself sexy, Intelligent and appealing it will be transmitted to your partner through your own lack of self esteem.

Take Time out to maintain your own mental, Physical and Spiritual Well being.

It is very important to celebrate and maintain your differences as well as things you have in common with each other.

One person can not steer or control the relationship, by themselves ... It is a one way ticket to serious frustration and burnout.

If you suddenly find yourself doing more than is reasonably fair to keep your relationship alive with little or no effort from your partner, you may want to ask yourself:

What is the Payoff for me staying in this relationship ?

Do I believe at some Level I deserve this type of Relationship ?

Do I believe at some level I am unlovable ?

Begin to Journal and notice how you are feeling about yourself and what direction you would now like to take with this new information.

Remember it is never too late to start over.