Are you Turning Your Booty Call into your Partner

While some may enjoy a Booty Call (see Definition) from Wikipedia here for various reasons.

This person may very well meet your needs late at night in your Bedroom introducing them to your family as your new Partner may not go down so well.

If we consider a Booty call is a Person who meets one of your most Primal needs you may realize the selection process for such a person are also quite Primal.

A Relationship focused on Sex, Lust and sexual satisfaction is not necessarily going to meet your other personal needs.

For example how much time have you spent in the past out of the bedroom getting to know each other.

Do you enjoy the same types of entertainment, are your Career goals complimentary to each other and Do your values match.

Is this person a serial Booty Caller and if so are there other people servicing or being serviced by your new partner.

Have you been to your Booty Call's home do you know their family and why for goodness sake didn't you date in the beginning instead of the other way around.

Sometimes you may know the Booty Call very well, as the Booty Caller is your ex or a friend of a Friend. In this case you may have long ago decided that the Booty Caller was not an adequate Partner for you although enjoyable for late night Sex.

What are your real reasons for considering turning the Booty Caller into your New Boyfriend/Girlfriend Now.

Take a moment to consider if you are creating a fantasy out of the illusion that the sex is good and so the relationship will be.

With a Booty Call you may just get to be yourself no airs and graces, perhaps no real reason to impress each other because who cares anyway.

While quenching your lusty thirst these things have been overlooked and perhaps justified with your words "never mind it's just a Booty Call".

Now you will have a chance to explore your differences under the microscope of dating or worse than that Living together.

May I remind you that in the beginning you were thought to be Booty Call material and not Girlfriend/Boyfriend Material.

I would ask you again to consider what has now changed and where you fall on this persons list of priorities, in fact where do they fall on your own list.

Is it a case of clutching at straws because there are no real Men /Women left and "better the devil you know" ?

If the answer is likely consider your own self belief and how much you really value yourself.

It doesn't hurt from time to time to revise your choices and perhaps even raise the bar.

If you don't believe you deserve something great, then no one else will either.

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