Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Powerful Strong Sexy and Confident


Photo by Suat Eman

Women are Powerful: Business Owners, Leaders, Mentors, Role Models, Superstars, Billionaires, Executives, Professors, Doctors, Scientists, Speakers, Coaches Mothers, Architects, Mathematicians Wives, Trainers, Girlfriends, Designers, Entertainers, Investors, Sisters, Award winners and more....

With more hats to wear than a "Hot model on a Runway" and most excellent at multi tasking.
Why is it then that some Women still find themselves becoming lost in their love Relationships.

With all the Victories women Gain in the workplace, Politics and Enterprise why are women questioning their power in Relationships.

In spite of any women's perceived insecurities within herself, there are always several men who want to be with her and will worship her.

Do you find yourself Being Needy, Aggressive, Argumentative  and generally loosing your power with men in your relationships, are you afraid to appear vulnerable ?

What really is the worst that could happen, do you seriously believe as strong as you are, you will not recover ?

The Value men put on you is the value you put on yourself. If you decide to be with a man who does not appreciate the Amazing Powerful Sexy Women you are then what Value have you placed on yourself.

Is there any reason ever to settle for a relationship that does not meet your needs, when you are the Goddess that you are.

Why waste all your time worrying about the size of your Hips, Bum, Boobs, Nose you fill in the blanks when you can appreciate the unique beauty that you are.

You can learn to love yourself to such a degree that any man will believe it too, just because you do.

Consider this, if you do not love yourself unconditionally how can you be sad or disappointed if another person will not either.

If you make yourself available at the drop of a hat, why would anyone go out of their way to do extraordinary and romantic gestures to get your attention.

Do you have any idea of what you truly want in a relationship and the values that are important to you, or will anything do.

Why on earth would you hold on to a relationship that makes you unhappy for, when you could be free to meet other lovely Gentle men.

Do you believe that there is such scarcity with men of any Culture or ethnic group of your preference that no one is left for you, are your choices limited, are they all Gay, Married, Cheaters or live with their mothers .... Do you really believe that is true.

And if, just if ... This were true,  why wouldn't you get one of the "few" that are suitable and available.
Don't you deserve and Insist on what is best for you ?

So what if it hasn't worked out in the past, can you think of anything else in your life ever that didn't work out the first few times you "Tried".

And aren't you growing, evolving, Changing, Improving every single day ? What makes you think that Men are not ?

What about focussing on just how amazing and delightful you are as a complete package, spending time working on your things and putting yourself first and being open to explore any possibilities that may interest you.

Women, Value yourselves and teach your young ladies to do the same.

Yes Shoes can be beautiful and so are you, why not buy into yourself, you are powerful ... if only you understood your own Power, you are Sexy and you are Strong and your confidence will come as soon as you develop it.

You have overcome and Learned what is best, choose something new this time, believe and trust yourself.

It is ok to be loved and Love, in fact it is wonderful and you deserve the experience.

Just for today Women bask in your power and know that you are a Goddess.

Empowerment- Relationships- Communication Coaching 

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