Saturday, January 2, 2010
Do You Expect The best For Yourself
How much Focus and intention have you dedicated to having the type of relationship which is forfilling and satisfying to you.
Do you spend all your time grumbling about it not being fair that you are not lucky in love and why your man is rubbish.
People who manifest success in any area of their lives spend a great deal of time believing in the possibility of their wants and not their don't wants.
Design the relationship you would like in your mind and work on becoming the perfect person you would like to be in the relationship as well.
The more you work on yourself, the more you realize your real wants, and not the superficial things you may have believed satisfied you at one time. Begin with loving the magnificent creature you are, appreciate yourself and fall in love with yourself first.
Can you even imagine somebody loving you in the way you would like to be loved ?
You will be surprised at what a magnet you will become, there is always something appealing about somebody who knows they are in demand and is modest about it think (Brad Pitt / Denzel Washington).
Prequalify your suitors, just because somebody likes you, does not mean they are suitable. What do they have to offer you in exchange for what you have to offer them, if you don't find yourself valuable here is where you may end up settling for less.
Calibrate along the way don't be afraid to try something new if this dating situation is not working, (no matter how long you have invested in the person) you can easily loose another 4 years if you aren't careful. Life is short !
Nisada Coaching
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